As reptiles grow they shed their old, restrictive skin. Potted plants eventually outgrow their original containers, requiring more spacious accommodations. Once humans reach adulthood our physical growth may end, but our spiritual growth may be just beginning. Much like reptiles and plants, though, we often find that we must leave those things that are no longer aligned with the person we are becoming behind. That includes people.
The friends you made when you were partying in excess may hinder your ability to reach new spiritual and emotional heights. This can be stressful. Instead of supporting you on your journey you may find that those closest to you are actually interfering with your attempts to follow your purpose. Your loved ones’ meddling may be conscious or unconscious on their part. They may selfishly try to pressure you into accepting an invitation you have already declined. Or they may maliciously try to sabotage your efforts to achieve a goal. Either way you may find this period of transition uncomfortable.
As a result of the discomfort and stress your spiritual growth has brought, you may find yourself reflecting on the days when you were able to quiet that inner yearning for something more with parties, food, and other overindulgences. You may feel defensive because you feel like something has been stolen from you. The Universe has “taken” your friends, or your friends are trying to “steal” your dreams. These feelings are perfectly normal. But don’t get stuck there.
Stop resisting. Give yourself permission to feel and process your emotions. Allow yourself to experience the pain, anger, or grief that this transition has brought to the surface. Be still for a while. When you’re ready, release that tension, so that you can move forward. The transition period won’t be easy, but it will be so worth it in the end.
Peace & Love,
Crystal