When I first began using cartomancy as part of my spiritual journey my intent was to use it as a tool for my own personal growth and development. What I didn’t expect was the effect that this practice would have on my marriage. When people think about tarot love readings questions such as “When will I find a husband?” or “Is my boyfriend cheating on me?” are typically what come to mind. However, by asking more action driven questions, I have learned to use the cards to deepen my connection with my husband and strengthen my marriage.
Cards can act as a neutral third party. They provide thoughtful insights into complex problems and relationship dynamics. The cards consistently call me out on my shit in much the same way that my husband tries to do. The difference is I don’t take the advice I receive from the cards personally. I don’t get defensive, shut down, and refuse to speak to them because I know that what they have to say is not an attack. By doing some serious soul-searching and reflecting on the messages I receive, I have been able to open up to my husband and have very difficult conversations about my flaws. I have learned to do everything in my power to show others how perfect I am, so having these discussions has been a major block in my marriage.
By setting some rules of engagement beforehand, my husband and I have been able to be vulnerable and talk about those parts of ourselves we don’t like to acknowledge. Together we are releasing the anger, hurt, and pain that have been tucked cozily just beneath the surface of our marriage. We are pulling back the sheets and stripping the bed bare. It’s time for those leeches to go! The mattress has been deep cleaned, we have brand new linen, and we spritzed some all-natural linen spray on our freshly made bed. We have committed to standing in our personal truths and cultivating honest communication and joy.
My husband and I are interacting in healthier ways with ourselves, with each other, and with our children. I invite you and your spouse to embark on your own journey to a stronger, healthier relationship with me as your guide. The Couples’ Coven is a series that was designed to help couples in committed relationships find constructive ways to communicate difficult truths, thus strengthening their bonds. Join me as I use a combination of card systems to spark discussions and learn what we can do to create relationships that spark joy. Each week you will receive a video reading, writing prompts, and actions steps to take to connect with your partner spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and of course, physically.
This is not a course that one partner can take alone, then try to drag the other person along. You both have to be dedicated to doing the work together. You do not need to have any knowledge about tarot in order to benefit from this series and reap the benefits, but you must be ready to be vulnerable and expose those scars that you’ve been flawlessly covering up like a make-up artist on Transformation Tuesdays! Are you ready? Don’t let fear keep you from experiencing all the juicy goodness of a satisfying relationship. Ditch the tattered duffel bag and upgrade to a luxury travel ensemble. Enter your email address below to join The Couples’ Coven. Let’s Go!!!
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